Add DELETE /api/tags/:name (gated by isModerator(), which also passes
for admins per the admin-implies-moderator invariant in roles.ts).
The endpoint normalises the name the same way creation does so the
URL casing doesn't matter, then deletes the tag and detaches it from
every activity_tags row in one transaction.
UI: new "Etiketter" nav entry visible to moderators + admins, opens
a ModerateTags.svelte view with search-as-you-type (reusing the
/api/tags suggestion endpoint) and a Slett button per row. Private
tags are unaffected — they're encrypted in the activity payload and
never reach the server tag table.
Tests: 3 new cases on top of the admin suite — moderator can delete,
plain user gets 403 (anonymous gets 401), unknown tag gets 404.